Even His Buddies Could See He Wasn’t Treating Her Right! But Would His GF Trust Her Gut or Continue to Put Up With It?

She already had some reservations about her boyfriend’s selfish behavior, but after a night out with his friends he showed his true colors! Could she continue to ignore the red flags?

They Hit It off Straight Away

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Sara had been in a relationship with her boyfriend for a little over a year now. They had met through mutual friends and hit it off immediately.

They enjoyed each other’s company, shared interests, and had a lot of fun together. Sara had never been in a long-term relationship before, so she was happy to be with someone who made her feel special.

Abandoned and Alone

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However, there were some things about her boyfriend that made her uneasy.

He had a habit of disappearing during their dates, leaving her feeling abandoned and alone.

Red Flags

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He would sometimes cancel plans at the last minute and never seem to take her feelings into consideration. But despite these red flags, Sara believed that he loved her and things would get better over time.

A Night Out With Friends

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It wasn’t until Sara spent an evening out with her boyfriend’s friends that she realized how poorly he treated her.

They had gone out to celebrate her birthday, but her boyfriend had spent all his money and couldn’t afford to buy her a drink. 

Alone and Ignored

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As the night went on, more of her boyfriend’s old friends showed up. Sara was happy to meet them, but her boyfriend disappeared for thirty minutes, leaving her feeling alone and ignored.

His friends, on the other hand, made an effort to include her in their conversations and make her feel welcome.

All an Act

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When her boyfriend returned, he tried to act like a good boyfriend by offering to protect her from any unruly men in the bar. But Sara couldn’t help but feel like he was just trying to show off in front of his friends.

His Friends Knew How to Treat Her

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One of his friends noticed that her boyfriend wasn’t buying her any drinks and bought her a shot. This small act of kindness made Sara feel appreciated and valued.

Out Too Late

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As the night wore on, Sara started to feel uncomfortable. She had to work early the next day, so she didn’t want to stay out too late.

When it was 12:30, an hour after her boyfriend said they would leave, his old friends wanted to go to a different bar until close. Her boyfriend automatically agreed without asking her.

Ignored

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She privately pulled him aside and told him that she wanted to go home and that this night was supposed to be about them.

He said, “It’s okay, you can get an Uber,” when she practically begged him to come with her, but he was adamant about staying out.

Was She Asking Too Much?

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It was 1 am, Sara’s phone was dead, she was drunk, and she was shocked that he wanted her to just get an Uber and go home alone.

She had to pull him aside and lay it on him for him to understand he was in the wrong, and he needed to get her home.

He was visibly annoyed because “I never see these people. I just wanna go with them; this is what happens at bars; you see old friends and hang out with them.”

Home Alone

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Sara felt alone and upset, and his friends noticed. They offered to walk her home, and that’s when her boyfriend agreed to walk with them.

They got her home, hugged her goodbye before her boyfriend even said goodbye, and watched her walk in.

She Deserved More

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After that night, Sara started to rethink her relationship.

She had always known that her boyfriend wasn’t the best, but this night taught her that he was actually the worst. She couldn’t help but think that she deserved better.

Did She Know the Real Him?

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Sara’s boyfriend had always been a bit selfish, but she had never realized how bad it was until she was around his other friends.

She began to wonder if this was just how he was or if it was just the way he acted around her. She couldn’t help but feel hurt and disappointed.

Her Feelings Don’t Matter to Him

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As she lay in bed that night, Sara couldn’t help but think about what had happened.

She had always known that her boyfriend wasn’t the best partner, but this night had shown her just how bad things were. She felt neglected and unimportant like her feelings didn’t matter.

Is He the Right Guy for Her?

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For the first time in their relationship, Sara began to question whether she should be with her boyfriend.

She started to fantasize about what it would be like to date one of his friends instead. She knew it was wrong to think that way, but she couldn’t help it.

Move On!

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From the story she’s told, her boyfriend sounds like a walking red flag. Here’s hoping she makes the correct decision!

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