This Redditor doesn’t want her brother-in-law to enter her house due to his homophobic comments. Here’s the full story.
She Lived With Her Sister and BIL in the Past
Anna, a 22-year-old woman, shared how she had lived with her sister and brother-in-law for three years before moving out two years ago.
Throughout her stay, tensions ran high, and conflicts seemed inevitable.
Her BIL Didn’t Get Along With Her
Her brother-in-law, harboring resentment towards Anna’s presence, treated her pets poorly and constantly blamed her for the deteriorating state of his marriage and the messy condition of the house.
She Kept Her Room Clean
However, Anna always kept her room tidy and stayed in her room most of the time.
The Problem Was Their Beliefs
The heart of the issue lay in the stark contrast between Anna’s worldview and her broth-in-law’s staunch Christian beliefs.
She Believed in Human Rights
As Anna embraced beliefs rooted in human rights and inclusivity, her brother-in-law exhibited behaviors and expressed views that aligned with negative stereotypes.
He Was Homophobic
Anna is dating a woman, and her brother-in-law has shown disrespect towards her same-sex relationship in the past.
Insincere Apology
Although he offered an insincere apology, it was mainly due to the pressure from his wife.
She Had Bought a House
Anna has recently purchased her own house and doesn’t want her brother-in-law on her property.
Her Family Was Homophobic Too
Although other family members shared similar religious beliefs and held negative views about her relationship, the personal history and ongoing tensions with her brother-in-law pushed her decision.
Her Sister Was Coming for a Visit
The story took a turn when Anna’s sister told her she is coming down to visit the city, so she told her that her husband is not invited to her house.
Her Sister Didn’t Take It Well
Her sister was disappointed about it.
Upholding Boundaries
But Anna remained resolute in maintaining her boundaries.
Her Family Said She Was Wrong
While some family members understood Anna’s reservations about having her brother-in-law around, others responded dismissively and said that Anna was wrong in her decision.
Seeking Other’s Opinion
She took to Reddit to ask whether she was in the wrong for her decision, and several comments came in support of Anna.
It’s Understandable
One Reddit user wrote, “Someone who is disrespectful towards you and your partner is understandably not welcome as a guest in your home. It is tough distancing yourself from toxic family members. Best of luck.”
BIL Is a Nuisance?
Another Redditor commented, “Totally valid reasons to not want to be around this person. They should do a hotel; I don’t really like staying at friends’ houses because I’m always worried I’ll be a nuisance. This person is a nuisance.
Prioritizing Comfort and Well-Being
There’s no reason to allow him to stay at your place when he makes you uncomfortable.”
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Source: Reddit