He’s Repulsed by Her Pregnancy and It’s a “Natural Male Reaction” – Poor Guy!

A pregnant woman’s husband says he’s not attracted to her anymore and she doesn’t know what to do.

Flaws In the Marriage

Image Credit: Shutterstock / HTeam

The Original Poster (OP) faces a tough situation in her marriage.

She has been with her partner (M) for seven years and has been married for three. 

A Baby On the Way

Image Credit: Shutterstock /KHOMKRICH Photos

This is their first pregnancy, which was planned.

No Bedroom Activity

Image Credit: Shutterstock / fizkes

When they hit the 12-week mark of their pregnancy, M stopped initiating any adult activity and responding to her advances, claiming he was stressed due to work.

She tried not to add pressure to his life, so she avoided making comments about it for a few weeks. 

Atrocious Accusation

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Zhuravlev Andrey

When she mentioned they had gone the longest without it since they were together, M accused her of cheating.

She was insulted and hurt by the accusation, and she explained she would never cheat.

The Bombshell

Image Credit: Shutterstock /pathdoc

To ease M’s stress about money and debts, she sent him $7.5k from her savings account.

When she asked about the debts, he denied having any money problems and revealed he was no longer attracted to her.

Pregnancy Body

Image Credit: Shutterstock / voronaman

When she asked what had changed, he claimed it was due to the pregnancy and expressed concerns about the long-term effects on her body. 

A Natural Reaction?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Antonio Guillem

He then accused her of manipulating his feelings and claimed his lack of attraction was a “natural male reaction.” 

Having Space

Featured Image Credit: Shutterstock / Africa Studio

She asked him to stay with a friend for a few nights to have some space, and he went to stay with his sister.

Looking for Reasons

Image Credit: Shutterstock / fizkes

OP is exhausted and doesn’t know what to do, feeling worse due to the situation on top of the pregnancy.

No Evidence of Cheating?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Fer Gregory

She searched through his laptop, office, and financial statements, but found no evidence of an affair. 

A Half-Hearted Apology

Image Credit: Shutterstock /
Mix and Match Studio

Since the incident, he has sent flowers and notes expressing love and apologizing, but he is not specific about what he’s sorry for. 

She has no idea what to do and seeks advice on what to do next.

What Redditors Said 

Image Credit: Shutterstock /George Rudy

Oneadayatatime responded by saying, “This is not a “normal” guy reaction. A normal guy gets incredibly happy his wife is having his babies. Some guys find that even more attractive.”

Heart-breaking

Image Credit: Shutterstock /fizkes

Another wrote, “He should cherish you for the sacrifice you are making to bring his children into the world. I’m so disheartened to read that he doesn’t value your seven-year relationship beyond temporary physical attraction.”

What do you think she should do? Is this a “natural guy reaction” or is he getting cold feet? Leave a comment!

Sugar Daddy Transforms This Girl’s Life by Paying off Her Debt, but Was This All Too Good to Be True?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / yamel photography

Ever wondered what happens when you reply to scammers and weird Instagram DMs? This woman finds out when she doesn’t ignore a strange offer from a genuine-seeming guy…but soon pays the price of being in his debt! Sugar Daddy Transforms This Girl’s Life by Paying off Her Debt, but Was This All Too Good to Be True?

You Reap What You Sow: Their Children Left Homeless While Their Aunt Sits In Her Large Spacious House! Should She Help?

Image Credit: Shutterstock /Zigres

Never mix family and money! This successful young woman is adamant she doesn’t want the burden of her struggling siblings and their kids. Even if it means they end up on the streets! You Reap What You Sow: Their Children Left Homeless While Their Aunt Sits In Her Large Spacious House! Should She Help?

Revenge: After He Betrayed Her, She Waited Until the Kids Were Grown to Rock Her Husband’s World!

Image Credit: Shutterstock /pathdoc

This tale of betrayal and revenge shows that sometimes playing the long game is the best way to hit someone where it hurts. She discovered the ultimate betrayal and waited a decade to show him he should never have messed with her! Revenge: After He Betrayed Her, She Waited Until the Kids Were Grown to Rock Her Husband’s World! See How

Family Secrets: She Found Out Her Parents Are Brother and Sister! But Why Is SHE Being Ostracized by the Family?

Image Credit: Shutterstock /Nikodash

Her parents weren’t who they said they were and the truth was far more shocking than she could ever imagine! Family Secrets: She Found Out Her Parents Are Brother and Sister! But Why Is SHE Being Ostracized by the Family?

Mother-In-Law Is About to Have Plans for a Family Vacation Shattered! It’s Time She Quit the Mom-Shaming and Outdated Advice!

Image Credit: Shutterstock / KieferPix

When they thought this new mom was sleeping, her mother-in-law and relative began criticizing her parenting. She can’t unhear that judgment and doesn’t want to join them on a family trip. Should she go? Mother-In-Law Is About to Have Plans for a Family Vacation Shattered. It’s Time She Quit the Mom-Shaming and Outdated Advice!

The post He’s Repulsed by Her Pregnancy and It’s a “Natural Male Reaction” – Poor Guy! first appeared on Wealthy Living.

Featured Image Credit: Shutterstock / Ruslan Galiullin. The people shown in the images are for illustrative purposes only, not the actual people featured in the story.

Source: Reddit