An internet user took to Reddit to vent about her husband. This woman has just discovered her husband has been having an affair and is distraught. This is her tale.
Her Husband Was Cheating
She’s a 31-year-old woman who is devastated after discovering that her husband has been cheating on her for years.
Her husband was her high school sweetheart, and they had been together for over 15 years since they were 16.
Trying to Conceive
She and her husband have been trying to conceive for years because she suffers from endometriosis, which has caused infertility and chronic pain.
They went through fertility treatment, and after four failed rounds, they finally had a son via IVF.
Their son is now 15 months old, and she loves being a mother.
They Struggled After the Birth of Their Son
After their son was born, her libido hit rock bottom, and they went months without sex.
Her husband stopped touching her or initiating sex, and when he did, it was difficult for her to get in the mood.
Believed His Words
Her husband assured her it was fine and that he wasn’t bothered by it.
She believed his words, but tonight she discovered the truth.
Her husband started sleeping around while she was still getting fertility treatment.
Who knows, with his lies, maybe it’s been going on much longer, but that’s what he admitted to!
She is heartbroken; she’s been crying all night and feeling physically sick.
She is devastated by the thought of her son losing his father and how the divorce will affect their family life.
She still loves her husband but is disgusted by his actions.
She built her whole identity growing up with this man, and now she just feels like a broken, lonely single mom.
It Was All a Lie
She had always felt blessed with her life, but now it seemed like it was all a lie.
The original poster (OP) also fears losing their home in the impending divorce since she cannot afford the mortgage alone.
His Behavior Was Suspicious
OP discovered her husband’s infidelity after he refused to let her use his phone to play a video for their child, which got her suspicious.
Being in tech, she used a few tricks to discover her husband’s hidden Kik and WhatsApp accounts.
Hacking His Phone
These had damning evidence of his affairs and even showed that he shared photos of their baby with one of his affair partners!
This was something OP could not forgive him for.
She confronted him, and he admitted to everything that he’d written on WhatsApp but denies further activities.
However, she doesn’t believe a word he says anymore.
Her husband has made a number of excuses, such as it’s not about sex but about power and that it felt good having a secret.
He also suggested that his cheating might be an addiction that replaced his alcoholism, which he had overcome seven years ago.
OP can see many parallels between his drinking behavior and his cheating but still thinks it’s inexcusable.
Where It Went Wrong
OP has been reflecting on their sex life and trying to pinpoint where it went wrong.
Long Break in Relationship
She remembers that they both had a long break about a year into their relationship where they saw other people too and had a number of wild experiences over the years too.
But their sex life used to be awesome.
She tried to engage in conversation many times about her concerns about how it had diminished, but her husband wasn’t receptive to making any effort to change it.
He wouldn’t communicate his needs beyond “It’s fine, I understand.”
They Both Gave Up
It’s fair to say they both gave up.
Recently, OP has been less tired and making efforts to improve things, and she thought they were getting better, but she’s years too late.
She’s Thinking of the Future
OP is devastated and heartbroken, but she knows that she has to rise to the challenge and provide the best life she can for their son.
She doesn’t know how she will co-parent with her husband or even get through the divorce, but she knows she has to try.
The Ultimate Betrayal
It’s tragic how her life has fallen apart, and it’s disheartening to know that so many people go through similar situations. Infidelity destroys families, and the damage it causes is immeasurable.
It’s sad to see how someone can betray someone they claimed to love for so long. It’s also a reminder that love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship. It takes effort, communication, and respect to make a relationship work.
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